6 am in Cape Town and the radio says blue skies all week. 26C today (in spring) lovely!
I think it was a bit of unconscious teasing but with just a hint of the other thing.
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As a WAW, it is possible that she allowed the bitterness to build inside of her for a long period of time. That is what WAW's do! She was very unhappy with your treatment of her and I'm sure that she is reacting out of that resentment.
I never saw any bitterness but I sure saw the result. I only know something built up which was hidden very well. My exploding on that night. W thinking about it for 24 hours, everything seeming normal and the arrival home to an empty house. Wow
She sure was unhappy with my treatment and I have a feeling she was as shocked at her reaction to me that night. There were no slaps but pushing certainly came into the mix in the heat of the moment - from both sides- to my shame. I honestly think the W was afraid of her reactions! Still trying to figure out (but never will) why she said later "I've never been thrown out of my home before."
I feel very positive that the respect issue needs to be addressed. I'll pop back over to Orich and put my reading glasses on.
If anyone else feels like they can elaborate or provide some tips I'd be very much obliged.
Sandi - your skills are just fine. Thanks for your observations. Truly appreciated.
So plans for today:
Call maintenance court to see if W cancelled court date. Call W (if not) and say Woman has been trying to contact you. I understand why you feel you need to go ahead with this but I don't agree. Please put lady out of misery and tell her if you intend to proceed or not.
And on the basis of the answer:
See you on the 17th Would you like to talk.
Sandi - I know your busy and spread very thinly over the board. There's more than just me here. If you could cast a glance over the previous few pages of posts, cut through the idle banter I've been generating and see if you can help me in making a concise list of issues and perhaps suggest a course of action.
I'm going to attempt to do the same later when I get back from work.
Have a wonderful day one and all. I wish us all the very best.
