Funny that I have the same sitch as you when it comes to finances. That is something I am working myself into with my W. I need to make that a higher priority.
I think you are correct that we H's need to get involved with this aspect of our M's. I know I have fallen short on this part.
I, too, was initially concerned about whether my W would get the wrong impression of me wanting to get involved with our $$$. Oh, and just like you, I, too, do not like conflict. Probably a product of growing up in a home with parents who often fought - lots of yelling and screaming. I have always avoided conflict in my R's for that reason I suppose.
But, your post has helped motivate me to get off my a$$ and do something more about our finances. I think this would fall under the heading of what Coach calls "leading."
