Thanks for your advice. And, no, I don't think (ever) you are picking on me. I really appreciate you taking the time to provide advice I would not otherwise have - priceless.
I understand about the walking on eggshells thing. I am not there anymore, but I am still hesitant when it comes to leading v. pursuing. I feel like my W and I are in the friends stage - almost like she is getting to know "me" again (I know this is a "me" she hasn't seen in a while and probably thought would never return).
So, the next move. I am not apprehensive about asking her if she would like to go to dinner or "hey, I was looking the other day and saw a cooking class I thought would be fun. You want to do that?"
What do you think Sandi (or anyone else out there).
