It looks like you see the big picture just like I did. Our spouses were and have the potential to be good spouses, but they seem to lack some morals. The lying seems like a con job almost to me. Even though my W wanted another chance, I did not believe she had the strength to stay commited to the marriage.
I hope you are enjoying the nice warm weather we are having in the Portland area this week. It probably reminds you a bit of Utah with a bit of humidity added int.
