First Timer

[wolverine1997]

Most people would say that she is harder to get along with than I am by far. I have always been the class clown, joking, pretty easy to get along with kinda guy and I usually hit it off with people right away.

Because of all of the bad things that have happened to my family though, my wife has become very negative, outspoken and unyielding about things. She has become determined to do what she wants regardless of how it affects others, especially me. For some reason she believes that I am the enemy. I really don't know why.

Don't get me wrong, I am not saying that I am perfect, but I do believe that I am reasonable and understanding. Throughout this whole ordeal I have tried to be supportive and loving. The night that I took her to the hospital after the assualt, a rape counselor told me that most marriages that have been affected by rape do not last. I can now see why.