First Timer

[wolverine1997]

Well, here we go. I decided to talk to my wife about her rudeness. I told her that she may not be aware that she is doing this but when I talk to her on the phone she often answers by saying "yeah" instead of hello and will hang up without saying "bye". I also told her that she comes into and leaves the house without speaking or saying that she is leaving. And when I try to talk to her about anything she frowns and responds in such an irritated manner.

As usual she immediately got irritated and said, "don't you think you have done the same thing"? I told her no I don't think that I've done that but if I have then she should have said something when it happened. She then said that she didn't say anything because she doesn't care. So I responded if you don't care why are you bringing it up? I told her that I'm bringing it up because I care and find it very rude. She gave me a smart alec remark like "I'll consider it".

She is so difficult to deal with. I really don't know what to do. Should I just ignore her and not speak to her? Should I continue to try to DB and do what I think is right? Part of me wants to just ask her to leave. I know that she can't afford it but so what. No one deserves to be treated like this.

Deep down I still think that she is just staying long enough to get her finances together so that she can leave. The problem is, knowing her, she will never get her finances together. She can't budget or save money. She is just using me right now to take care of everything while she tries to pay off all of her bills.