As a WAW, it is possible that she allowed the bitterness to build inside of her for a long period of time. That is what WAW's do! She was very unhappy with your treatment of her and I'm sure that she is reacting out of that resentment. As far as "payback" by disrespecting you b/c you were that way towards her.....I'm not sure that particular emotion works like that. I mean, she could try to pay you back for a lot of things, but we either respect another person or we don't. I do believe that people must "earn" respect and many LBH's do not understand how his trying to hard...actually comes across to his WAW as him looking like a whipped dog. She may have some type of pity for you (at some point), but she won't respect you as a man. It takes a person who can use writing skills better than I, to explain this in the way it deserves.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
