OMG! Yeah, that is about exactly what my H says and believes - for this moment at least.

The thing that is really frustrating is that it is still him controlling what is happening bc its this or it's over.

Anyways, its another day and I just take it one day at a time.
Hope you had a good weekend.

Me: 35 , H - 38
M: 3.5 yrs
R: 8 yrs
Separated: 4/28/09
Divorced: 9/11/09