Originally Posted By: sandi2 I will tell you like I've told a lot of LBH's.......a WAS will treat you as disrespectful as you allow them. It is important that you keep your self-esteem and respect.
Hey Sandi - I'm truly hurt to the core. You never told me that
BTW - I'm planning on acting on that advice starting tomorrow. And there's my W's biggest claim - I didn't give her the respect she deserved. So is this payback time for her? Mac is no longer a doormat. Hmmmmmmm.
Hi Mac, at first I thought maybe you were teasing me, but then I thought maybe you was serious. If you are being serious, then you may want to read what I posted to Orich on “Divorce Not Busted” regarding how important it is for W’s to have respect for her H. There were a couple (maybe more) of posts about that together in a row. I have talked about that issue on several other LBH’s threads.
What I said on MJ’s thread is so true, but especially when it comes to a woman respecting her H. As a LBH, you must have your WAW’s respect before she can love you. She can’t be attracted (in a healthy way) to a man she doesn’t respect. I think that respect if the first target to shoot for and then the love will follow.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
