I understand completely...everyone says to move forward, but how do you do that when you love someone so much and just want to remain hopeful. I do think (from what I've read) that they will never be the same person we had and we have to decide if we want the new person. Do you?
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10