Well, today was all over the charts. Up, down, sideways, crossways, you name it. I heard all of the typical scrtipt, don't love you, shouldn't have gotten married. I think the biggest tip to her was that I wouldn't allow her to lie to the kids. She wanted to take our plans together and leave me out, and tell the kids some story that I had things to do. I had every intention of going and was not going to allow her to lie to them about why I was suddenly staying home. Things turned out okay for the day, but I don't know how long I can put up with being called every name in the book at random intervals. I did hang up on her 3 times today when her language got foul to me, just told her I am not going to allow her to talk to me that way, when you are done, we can talk.