You two guys know I'm just picking on you, but I do wonder if all this stress in your MR has gotten you so tense that you are questioning and analyzing EVERYTHING. Your WAW can tell when you are not relaxed and it puts everyone "deffense" and she will feel like she's walking on those egg shells as well. The first goal to reach (IMO) is for eveyone to start feeling relaxed around each other. Then try to stop putting a magnify glass over every little thing and worring about it. That is so easy for me to say as a WAW, isn't it? Didn't mean to sound like that, but since I've not been in the LBS's shoes, I suppose it is something that I see all LBS have in common here on the board and I see the fear in their posts. I think a lot of you have worked so hard on your improvements that it may have you in knots about some other things. Makes sense that it would after your S wants to leave! I'll hush before I burry myself deeper!


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!