Coach, I'm not sure I get this. Your list seems like pursuing. What I'm asking is what defined, characterized, confirmed you and Greek being in the Friendship Stage? I know that sounds like a question with an obvious answer, but to me right now it is not. What preceded that stage for you,?
I’m not trying to answer for Coach, but let out a big “sigh” when I read this. The reason is b/c I’ve been asked questions similar to that one and I suppose it is one of those types of questions that women want to react to (lol).
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Coach, I follow what you are saying. How much is too much?
Can you see me pulling my hair and screaming “MEN!!” (OH, I’m just kidding you!)
First, you did notice that Coach said he & Greek had to get to that stage of friendship. Once there in that stage, it opens the door for the couple to do more. It appears they are being good friends, but it actually allows the WAS to fall in love again. As long as the LBH feels that he is walking on eggshells, then he & WAW are not in the friendship stage. Remember that friends seem to "like" one another and are relaxed around each other and they are “free” to do more at that point without the fear of the WAW reacting in a negative way. Yes, he still has to take things at a watched pace and not get crazy, but it would seem that it was in that stage he could do these things like Coach did.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
