sorry my son decided to play his favorite game, how many balls can i get stuck in the gutters so i can get dad to let me walk on the roof.
my suggestion to you is basically "tough love." you have posted in the Infidelity forum, so i assume your wife left you and there are some extramartial concerns. if you weren't married, just dating, would you put up with being number two when she needs something different? wouldnt you want her to be chasing you? making a commitment to you and proving it?
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So... im kind of stuck thinking what is best way.
jealousy. it worked on you. it will work on her too.
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now i feel this is a fine line im still walking here between a friend and a saftey net.
its a game for her. she doesnt want a friend or a safety net. cant you see how she is testing you. game of love, man. she is chasing just enough not to get caught. and when you get all needy and pleading she gives up.
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this week has taken all my progress from befor and just set everything back, we talked and text way too much. I know I did alot of pleading to keep her in the kids lifes. (and yes mine)
she wants a MAN who will put her in her place. not a begger, but a man who is attractive and charming and confidant enough to say I am not a safety net.
Steve McQueen.
"Maybe what you need's for someone to send you flowers. Someone strong and mean who can prove he has the power to show you more than charm and take you on your way to where you want to be at the end of the day."
see I dont beg but when she was steping out of the kids lives I felt there was no choice to keep her around
