Hope the Harley problem isn't too easy of a fix.:)
Things are going along here. My favorite MLCer is MLCing along. He has the script down pretty well (he is an actor type and is good at memorizing scripts and acting the part) but has on occasion recently forgotten himself and actually acted "normal." Then remembers and the alien returns. Ick.
Try to stay as positive as you can the next few days when your H is out of town. It is tough, I know.
H put the charger on the bike overnight, and then was going to get a new battery in the next town this morning. When I woke up he was gone. I did hear him come into what was once our mstr bdrm to empty the trash in the bathrm (garbage day today). I must have been sound asleep, because I didn't even hear the bike start up.
So, he is gone. I don't know where he went, or if she is with him. If she is, I hope they don't get along. But, I can't see that happening since I believe she is too desperate and will hold on to her successful MLCer married man. I imagine she will do anything to please him at this point. She needs to convince him that D is the right thing to do. Grrr...
The last thing my D told me at the airport when I flew home, was to think positive. And Faith you just told me that also. So I will really try. Why do I love him and miss him so much when he's treated me like c#*p? I keep thinking this is not my H. He would not be acting this way. My H loved me and told me so everyday. (sigh)
It's nice your H takes out the garbage - mine hasn't done that in forever!
I will pray that you are able to be positive this week. It is comforting when we are able to focus on the fact that God is in control. I know, easier said than done sometimes.
I don't understand how anyone could go after a married man (or woman), but then again we don't know what they tell the OP.
"Why do I love him and miss him so much when he's treated me like c#*p? I keep thinking this is not my H. He would not be acting this way. My H loved me and told me so everyday." - I feel exactly the same way. Why are we putting up with it? My H in a conversation last said he didn't know how long I could go on receiving "nothing" from him since he has nothing to give at this point. I didn't say so then, but I made a promise to him and plan to hold up my end as long as I can.
MJ, I will tell you like I've told a lot of LBH's.......a WAS will treat you as disrespectful as you allow them. It is important that you keep your self-esteem and respect.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
I went to a friends house last night. She holds a womens bible study at her house once a month. It was good for me, and came at the right time. I have not heard anything from H yet, but didn't think I would. There was a message from step son on the phone although. He called to let us know that he arrived at his destination safely.
I do alright when I'm not dwelling on where H went, or who he may be with. I spent some time this morning reading Favorite Weirdo's thread from the MLC archives. He was a former MLCer, who came on the BB to tell his story and answer questions for the wives of MLCers. Very interesting reading.
Wondering if I should text H and give him the message from his s. Any advice would be appreciated!!
By the way, I didn't plant any black thong panties on his bike. They were red! (jk) It was a good idea though!
Wondering if I should text H and give him the message from his s. Any advice would be appreciated!!
Don't you think if your H really wanted to know about his son, he would call you to find out? Your heart is looking for excuses for you to contact, and that's pursuing.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
I will tell you like I've told a lot of LBH's.......a WAS will treat you as disrespectful as you allow them. It is important that you keep your self-esteem and respect.
Hey Sandi - I'm truly hurt to the core. You never told me that
BTW - I'm planning on acting on that advice starting tomorrow. And there's my W's biggest claim - I didn't give her the respect she deserved. So is this payback time for her? Mac is no longer a doormat. Hmmmmmmm.
MJ listen to the nice lady.
Good night one and all.
Pleasant dreams and may a wonderful day great us when we wake.
