snodderly, everything you said about his childhood is absolutely true! thanks for letting me know to STOP blaming myself and move on with my life. I so want him to come back, but he's going to be different and so am I, so who knows where that will take us.
I want to share my life with someone. I want to be in a relationship. Ugh! But, I have to be sure I have done everything to save this marriage before I move on to another relationship. The only thing that will help heal is time...and I know that. Do you have a thread? What is your situation?
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
