Trusting, I think I would send a followup text saying that you will not speak with him if he is going to rant and rave at you. Then he cannot say you are being mean ol Trusting.
I say this because I think that it would be the best stance for me to take with H's temper tantrums.
That or to hand him a pacifier.
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