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Belly Dancing?? That sounds like fun, but I'd be too scared my belly hasn't seen anyone since I was pregnant. Argh !!


And your point is? Sweetie, I have several years on you and I'm not the svelt thing. Doesn't matter. Do what you love.

Everyone out here is in a different place. Some have very ugly situations, we all hurt and do the best we can. You can't compare tears.

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I feel really guilty he has our D4 (his weekend) and he's sooooo upset that my mother can't watch her. WTH??


I hope you don't really feel guilty. Guilt implies that you did something wrong. His weekend just falls where it does. It made me laugh that he's upset you Mom can't watch D4 for him. Why should she at all? She gets to have a life too. He has to take care of his own business now.

I hope you really enjoy the picnic. You need and deserve to have a great time.

As far as what to say when people ask, just keep it simple. Tell them you don't want to come off as being rude, but that you really don't want to talk about it. Then thank them for asking and their concern.

You'll do fine.

HUGS