Faithful, I know in my case there are other men in the picture.Adultery is still grounds but is generally difficult to prove that iswhy most people don't go with that ground.As for sep.i know what you are saying.I don't know financial aspects of your sitch but in mine W would end up paying me.Every sitch is different.I know that seps.a lot of time do end in divorce.But to divorce right now would pretty much rule out any chance of reconciliation.No body gets eveything they want in a divorce.Both parties end up losing in the end.Divorce also is NOT a positive.