WTG sgct....well...u can see where I am now....from being placed in the 'inspirational column' here back in fall '06...to one of the ugliest dragged out divorces on the board.

Not proud of that.

Met with my IC today. She said some really great things..."I've changed'.....'see great progress'.....etc. Told her that I am simply working on developing new tools...mostly for my kids to steer them thru this. We had a GREAT day yesterday and I posted some pix.

My kids are starting to ask me why 'mommy is taking so long'..or...'I thought mommy was just going to get her nails done'. STBXW is departing when I get home. Probably OM..but...hey...more time with my kids.

25...hope you are well. It's a screwy thing here.... one thing I think is really f'd up is this:
1) file complaint
2) response
3) counter response

Oh geeez. STBXW is still hung up on that 'she wanted a separation' and 'he's trying to take my kids away from me'. I'm 'glad' I filed for D. Trust me. STBXW did NOT want a separation to think, get space, mull it over, etc.......

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;