Kevin, I agree with you on the separation.Here in NY if you are LEGALLY separated for a year then the other party can go ahead with divorce with all the terms of sep.generally put into divorce.Well I have spoken to a couple attorneys in the last few months.My WAW had also spoken to one.I know from research that most couples do not get everything they want in a divorce.My wife seems to think that she will get everything she asks for.That is probably her attorney talking.I am most likely put in sep. agreement that we go to marriage counseling for a period of time during sep.A sep. agreement is supposed to be a combination of what both of the parties want.I will not give my W everything she wants without putting in something I want.Gotta give if you want to get.I hope she goes for this.If she doesn't she might be facing a very expensive divorce.I don't know if this is the right way to approach it but I am not going to stand down and take a beating either.I know the sep. buys time but everything in it is final.If her idea is to do it to satisfy me and still get everything she wants in the end then the whole time thing is really a waste of time.The time factor should allow me to DB not be taken in the end.
Last edited by Eye of the Tiger; 07/26/0905:21 PM.
