I'm proof of that - not had more than 30 mins with the W in nearly two months. And very few and far between.
I'm relying on "spreading the love" through mutual friends.
Just gotta find things that work. If they don't, change tack and try something else. But give them time and look for results. Damn hard I know. Painful but rewarding even if it's just to yourself.
The ONLY thing you can do is work on yourself. Vital stuff!
Chin up boed - there's lots of us here going through the same crud with the other half.