Remember the quote from the book. "Time may seem like it's killing you, but it is in fact on your side."

I actually never understood that quote to be quite honest. I understand that it seems like it is killing me, but how is it on my side?

Me 36, Him 33
M 11yrs, T 15yrs
S 8, D 7
ILYBINILWY - 1/09
H moves out 10/09
D to be final SOON I HOPE!