Thanks girls and guys. My D got some stomach virus that lasted 24 hours, enough to mess up our schedule. But we are back now and she is OK.
H did come and did pay But the first day he was sleeping and the second he was with us, D got sick and he was such an active parent. Weird stuff. He gets more and more into the kids and pretty often he "bypasses" my rules and instructions. But it is all abut the kids. It seems I am "not a very careful mom". His problem. I am doing my best.
NOT a SINGLE moment of connection, sleeping like strangers and NOT a single discussion was possible. Completely detached from me while I was steaming...
Once we got back, he took a shower, got dressed, kissed the kids and came to hug and kiss me good bye. I pushed him away and told him "let's not fool ourselves please!!!". He stepped back, "amazed" and said I am "tragic" which has the meaning of pathetic almost. Because I nag and complain and probably because he cant "satisfy" me no matter what he does. I want to kill him. K
But the first day he was sleeping and the second he was with us, D got sick and he was such an active parent. Weird stuff. He gets more and more into the kids and pretty often he "bypasses" my rules and instructions. But it is all abut the kids. It seems I am "not a very careful mom". His problem. I am doing my best.
