Hey M, Sorry I missed you, I hope you are having a relaxing 4 days away... I agree with you that things might be discussed this weekend, I felt that intuitively myself for my own sitch too! I hope they are. Interesting you left yesterday, on the eclipse.
I miss my friend too! Um.. that would be you! Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
I hope you're having a wonderful weekend away. My Athenian friend just got engaged in Crete so I will be coming to Athens for her wedding next year- very exciting!
I hope your Dad is OK- I'm thinking about him and you.
Thanks girls and guys. My D got some stomach virus that lasted 24 hours, enough to mess up our schedule. But we are back now and she is OK.
H did come and did pay But the first day he was sleeping and the second he was with us, D got sick and he was such an active parent. Weird stuff. He gets more and more into the kids and pretty often he "bypasses" my rules and instructions. But it is all abut the kids. It seems I am "not a very careful mom". His problem. I am doing my best.
NOT a SINGLE moment of connection, sleeping like strangers and NOT a single discussion was possible. Completely detached from me while I was steaming...
Once we got back, he took a shower, got dressed, kissed the kids and came to hug and kiss me good bye. I pushed him away and told him "let's not fool ourselves please!!!". He stepped back, "amazed" and said I am "tragic" which has the meaning of pathetic almost. Because I nag and complain and probably because he cant "satisfy" me no matter what he does. I want to kill him. K
But the first day he was sleeping and the second he was with us, D got sick and he was such an active parent. Weird stuff. He gets more and more into the kids and pretty often he "bypasses" my rules and instructions. But it is all abut the kids. It seems I am "not a very careful mom". His problem. I am doing my best.