just wanted to catch up on a little journaling, please do not think I am analyzing H's motives/actions, this thread is also for recordkeeping.

Friday was our 10 year anniversary & I hadn't heard anything about it from him (didn't expect to). He came home from work & was sitting next to me while I opened the mail. My parents had sent an anniversary card so I opened it, took the money out, handed it to him & said "oh, this is for you too". He just looked at it & set it down. I said "Are you even going to acknowledge this day?" He said "Are you?" I said "yes, I got you a card, did you get me one?" He said "no" & just stared at me uncomfortably....like he wanted to say something...or he was waiting for me to say something...or he was looking to see if I would cry...it was weird

He left & went to his bball game. The kids & I went to an outdoor movie that was shown by our neighborhood. We came home & set sleeping bags on the family room floor to camp out. I taped the card I got H to the door - it was very generic, but I wanted to give him something to let him know that I still remembered the day. He came in, looked at us & asked what we were doing. I said "having the campout that we have been planning all week". He proceeded to sleep on the couch with us.

Saturday - I cleaned the house. H ran errands. I took the kids to the pool & when we got back at 4:30, H was gone, he returned at 6:30 - never said where he went. We ate dinner & all watched movies together (H slept on the couch). I put the kids to bed & at 9pm decided to go out...h was still sleeping. Came home to find out D had thrown up 3 times.

Sunday - h was supposed to have bball game...drove down & found out they had forfeited so he was home early. D laying around on couch sick. H decides to go fishing.

Me 36, Him 33
M 11yrs, T 15yrs
S 8, D 7
ILYBINILWY - 1/09
H moves out 10/09
D to be final SOON I HOPE!