Ok so that feeling didnt last long last night. I didn't want to let it. I did some reading and got doing other things and got a good night's sleep. I am feeling better today. Back to being the best I can be (as you said!)

I want to plan in some more things for myself in the weeks to come. But have to keep the costs down as I'm trying to save money and its tight. I am taking your ideas of massage and getting my nails down, or other pampering type things.

I am getting back into the classes at the gym. The concert you went to sounds like fun. I will keep looking for new things to do and try.

I want to change my bedroom around some, at the very least get some new sheets and duvet covers, spruce things up, go for a new look. And I want to remove anything else that is H's from the drawers, cupboards etc. He obviously is in no hurry to do so himself or get his things. Just trying to decide about one photo in the bedroom if I want to take it down.

I continue to work on letting go, forgiveness, patience.
Moving forward....


Me-27
H-28
M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs
No kids
B 1/09
S 2/09

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