Do they ever stop lying? Is he lying to everyone else (including the OW)? It's the lying and the constant deception that makes me nervous. He does e-mail, text, call, and visit me. I am sometimes available, often not....How do I deal with that? Is he just 'playing me' or does he still want to be around me to some degree?

It's interesting...he made a comment about how 'frugal' I have always been. Given what you all have said, I am wondering about his "new" spending habits??


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B