Braveheart,
Did you just call me old? grin

My point is that if anyone is making a decision to remain committed to their marriage it shouldn't matter whether the sky is blue or the numbers add up {did you know that 58% of all statistics are made up on the spot? wink } or the stars align. The best chance anyone and everyone has at a reconciliation is to move forward with life while doing nothing that would make it impossible for the absent spouse to return.

~ swl


Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}