i think for them to apologize is to truly admit what they have done and most likely they just cant deal with that.
my h has apologized but not often enough for me to think he truly apologized. the guilt associated with the remorse is just too great.
believe me, when they lay down at night, when all is quiet, they know what they did, they feel bad for what they did.
i think they cant even handle that. i think they keep doing what they are doing to not deal with what they have done.
i dont know if that makes sense.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09