How do you wait this out?

[Golfgirl1]

Glam I have read many of your posts and you are amazing and I will look to you for guidance! I don't want to leave this marriage without truly trying because I want to know that I did everything possible to save it, and I want to be better if/when I have another relationship. I'm almost 48 and, since I'm not getting any younger, I question waiting almost 3 years (as you have done)....Please give me some insights on that. In fact, I'll take any insights!! thanks...