We have a joint savings and checking account, and he hasn't touched it yet. How do I get his name off of it? I have my own checking and savings account. His name is also on our mortgage, other household bills, etc. I didn't remove his name from those, but those bills come to my house and I pay them, so I think I'm okay with that.
I am having a private investigator look into the financial documents of the company as of today...so SHE can't manipulate and move stuff around. That's why I want to go file for divorce as soon as possible. Is that dumb? Snodderly, what do you mean this is a business deal?
He lies, deceives, and from what you all have posted he is in full-blown replay stage. His childhood was about as bad as it could possibly get. He says he is 'out of the fog' and things are becoming clearer and he's now questioning our relationship. He's telling me all of the things I did wrong in the 20 years of our marriage. It's SO hard to sit and listen to and I just want to "fix" things NOW!
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
