ok, I would not get arrested for her thats for sure. to be honest i dont know why she called me when she was in trouble/had trouble. Ive told her befor I dont have anymore money than her. And I would think she would just have her grandma or parents to help bail her out.
Its like if I only knew what was going through her head. Like last night she said having my son with her was what helped her when she left. (I guess I just dont get leaving if it's that hard but Im not a WAS so I prob never will know)
when I ignore her all togeather i get the most responce (usually she calls alot and will even ask to see me) but I think after we make contact again it caused her to push away more. (I call this just being mean)
If I stay just a little removed (I dont contact her and take time writing her texts back) I get her texting and contacting me more regularly but not much more than that.
So... im kind of stuck thinking what is best way.
it is often written that the LBS needs to become friends with the WAS befor any R can take place. So how do you become that friend? do i just keep doing what im doing or do i take another approch?
