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Originally Posted By: VeronicaV
Rather, I am saying that the end of this relationship is a death, of sorts, and I feel sadness surrounding that.
Oh, God, yes. Is it ever. And your (my) heart was broken
Originally Posted By: VeronicaV
I am trying not to analyze why...that is how I get myself into trouble.
The head rushes in to comfort the heart but short-circuits it - denies it - instead.
Originally Posted By: VeronicaV
So, I am just allowing myself to feel the sadness as it ebbs and flows, recognize it for what it is and let it pass.
And this, too, shall pass. Gotta allow your pain. It will just find another way out, but it will find a way.
Sounds like a good IC session.

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac