I can't believe you actually talked to her for that long, especially when she brought up the "hurt" again.
Okay, 2x4 time.
The only reason why she talked to you for that long is because you are starting your new job and aren't going to be around much to be her scapegoat. When she started talking about the hurt, you should have ended it right there. Plus, her "stress" didn't address why she didn't call the kids back. That's got nothing to do with you. It's called responsible parenting which she is not doing.
Don't be surprised that when you're gone and try to call the kids, she doesn't answer the phone.
You have to get in her face and call her out on that stuff much more aggressively. Her sending the pictures are just more bait that she sends your way to satisfy her need of knowing that you are still under her spell.
She hasn't gotten any help for herself and it seriously shows.
Her "hurt"? What about the hurt that you and the kids have been putting up with for the past year. What about her dragging the kids' emotions through the mud with her sick twisted games? That's what you should have addressed to her.
Oh she'll go and complain about how YOU are being so mean, etc. But that ship has long since sailed. It's about your kids.
Detach detach detach
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
