In your Zen example there are several items worth noting. First, the cup was empty to begin with, Second, and this is really the important point, the reaction of the professor is rooted in the following: "there is something wrong" and by extention whether something should or should not "be" a certain way. Third, the reaction is that there is something to be "fixed."
I have to disagree. The "several items" you mention are not worth noting at all. One has to wonder why you avoid addressing the message, and instead find fault with the messenger.
Every post you make here just shows that your cup is not empty and you are not willing to taste anyone else's tea but your own (yes there are variations to the story, try not to get too hung up on it).
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
