I would encourage you to buy the book. It is worth the money. It also helped our relationship which was "great except for the sex"
As it turns out, sexual disfunction in a relationship can put it on the rocks very quickly and you may not be aware of the depth or the longevity of your partner's pain.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.