Thanks! It is not just a quote for me, it is a constant reminder of the kind of man I need to be.
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My observation is that the men I meet fall into 1 of 2 categories
1. Control freaks - who usually haven't recognised the extent of their controlling behaviour; and 2. Men who want to be controlled - some to the extent that sometimes I think they want me to be their mother - believe me there is nothing less sexy than a man who wants to be mothered.
Yup, I can see that. I was a little of both actually. Often we shape ourselves to fit the personality of our partner, and so I would swing between the two at times, depending on her behavior (ugh!).
I wish you good luck in your search! It is a rare man indeed who can recognize such faults, let alone overcome them.
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What's S&A?
S&A = Strong&Alive, one of the members here on the forums. He offered me good advice, and these lines summarized it perfectly. Thanks S&A!
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
