Do I want to know the truth?

[bluerain]

Hi LMG,
A man who is seperated is NOT availible. He is still someones H, he is still M! This always disgusted me. If you want to start a new R, get a freaking D. I just dont see the point of it at all. Seems like cake eating.

Anyway, I think that you know the answer to your question. If it wasnt a PA, then it was at least an EA, or a budding one, and since you are still M, it is definately an A now, or at least IMO. I totally understand your wanting to know the truth, and to hear it from him, and you deserve to know it. But I think that forcing him to say it might tear open old wounds that are going to be torn open enough without you going and looking for things to hurt yourself with.