Hey Susie:

Have to agree with Jiji when she says:

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we HD people love to hear about LD peeps who actually try to do something about it




And this HD likes to hear what works, maybe it's something I hadn't thought of . . . like when Jiji wrote:

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think about a time when you did feel like having sex and find out what was different then




I hadn't thought of asking H (the LD in our marriage) about this. My fear is that he may have to think back too far to remember.

Keep reading the boards, there's a goldmine of information and support to be found here. And keep posting. It's amazing what sharing like this can do for keeping a Positive Mental Attitude.

GraniteRose


Domestic Abuse Survivor since 6/26/2002