Hi everyone. What a way to introduce myself, eh? I'm brand new here. I found out about all this from reading a magazine article in "Marriage Partnership" by Michele. I have perused your forums here a little bit, and thought maybe I could see what you guys think of my situation.

I'm 32 and he's 41. He has a very high sex drive, while mine is very, very low. We have a 2-1/2 year old and an 11 month old. Hubby is always pursuing me and I'm always giving excuses.

Don't get me wrong...I enjoy things once they are started. However, I have no desires and I don't initiate...ever. I want to want sex more so my husband isn't so deprived. I think it's wounding his self-esteem. I hate that I'm like this.

Is anyone else in my shoes? Any advice?