My WAW is pretty pissed at me right now also.At least when I dropped the kids off before she gave me a kinda nervous smile.Sometimes we do things because they are so ingrained in all the years of marriage that we don't realize we are doing them.Laying down next to her was an invasion of her space.But I know how you feel.My W is going for a sep.now.She thinks she is going to get everything she wants out of this.She is wrong because I'm going to get my terms in there to.