Hi dgtal, I think thats a much more positive attitude than you trying actively to humiliate them. I agree with steve, that his wife knows a lot more than you realize, and blissfully happy Ms are not the place where A's start.

Im glad that you are going to focus on your W, I hope that you can also look at your M and figure out why the EA started in the first place. Its sort of the clean up your own back yard first idea.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...