Well, today was all over the charts. Up, down, sideways, crossways, you name it. I heard all of the typical scrtipt, don't love you, shouldn't have gotten married. I think the biggest tip to her was that I wouldn't allow her to lie to the kids. She wanted to take our plans together and leave me out, and tell the kids some story that I had things to do. I had every intention of going and was not going to allow her to lie to them about why I was suddenly staying home. Things turned out okay for the day, but I don't know how long I can put up with being called every name in the book at random intervals. I did hang up on her 3 times today when her language got foul to me, just told her I am not going to allow her to talk to me that way, when you are done, we can talk.
I don't know how you guys could function knowing your W are pulling that kind if BS. Mine doesn't even live with me and it pisses me off.
On a side note glad to see you were GALing Shock. I was able to get out Friday and Saturday nights also and get back some of my mojo.
M (46) W (45) S (17) D (14) D (6) T (20) M (17) Seperated 3/2009 . When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze." Isaiah 43:2
Brave, I can honestly say that the only thing at this point keeping me remotely wanting to DB is the kiddos. The looks in their eyes when W pulls off some of the BS she is doing just breaks my heart. That is the sole reason for me to want to put my family back together. However I don't know how much longer I can continue with it.
Glad to hear you are Getting YOUR Life back. Nothing like getting your mojo, I spent last Sunday at an awesome concert with some great friends and it was awesome. Cheers to GAL!
Brave, I can honestly say that the only thing at this point keeping me remotely wanting to DB is the kiddos.
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The looks in their eyes when W pulls off some of the BS she is doing just breaks my heart.
I have the exact same situation going on. But I did see the flip side of the coin yesterday with an expression of love from D 6 after she returned home for a couple of nights.
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That is the sole reason for me to want to put my family back together. However I don't know how much longer I can continue with it.
I've been troubled with this also. I responded to you over on my thread about this also, have a look.
I'm gonna try and get some sleep.
M (46) W (45) S (17) D (14) D (6) T (20) M (17) Seperated 3/2009 . When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze." Isaiah 43:2
well the W got a move in date for her rental, guess it is officially going to happen. Not that I doubted that. Just a little more reality setting in. At least we are able to get along pretty well right now and are able to work out the kids plans.
I continue to get unfulfilled promises, but I guess it gets easier to accept that it is going to continue happening when you know that you can't believe anything that you are told. Doesn't change the frustration factor though.
