WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 11

[confusedinpa]

I tried to call her last nite to talk about the boys and calling but she didn't answer. I wound up sending her a text. She answered right away asking what I wanted. I told her to chat for a few minutes. She said it was late and we could talk tomorrow.

She wound up calling the boys tonite. My 7 year old asked why she didn't return his call the last 2 nites. First she said she didn't get any messages but then said she didn't get home until after 9 on Thurs so she thought thy were asleep. He old her that he wasn't and she should have called. She said she would but then went on about how the parent with the boys should be the one who calls. I didn't say a word at her craziness as we tried to call and she didn't answer.

My 3 year old didn't want to talk to her.

So when my 7 year old gave me the phone, I just said we would talk later.

I am annoyed. What should I do about the calls? When the boys call and she doesn't answer, my boys are hurt/upset. I told her this in the past and told her she should call but she doesn't agree. She thinks who ever has the boys should call

Any thoughts?