7 yrs and counting, any hope

[Done in VA]

Onceuponatime - do you know if your H is still in replay? how is he behaving? Would it be appropriate to reach out to him? Ask him for a cup of coffee? I can tell you when my uncle returned home to my aunt as I mentioned above...it was because his four daughters showed up on his doorstep & said, "Dad, it's time to come home" He was so filled w/guilt & shame & felt trapped in a world he had created & didn't know how to get out of...it took them reaching out to him to let him know he was still welcome & wanted.