I can empathize with the "Do I love him/her?" part. And I can tell you that's it a kick in the pants bar none to be 2-3 months past filing and suddenly realize that yes, you do.

Hey, God - can I get a do-over on that one, please?

The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
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