question:What my WAW is going thru sounds very much like a MLC.As with other problems in life when you read about it sometimes you understand more.Is there a good book on MLC's that the person going thru it can read to maybe understand more of what they are experiencing.I know by telling w she she is going thru MLC would probably not be good.After all I am not an expert on the matter.She will not believe anything I am saying.But if she read about it maybe she would understand more.By the way after the blowup before she said she still wants a separation.I know she is doing this more for me than for her but I guess its still better than a divorce.