Knee jerk reaction was to stay home, not work out, and keep the kids so she could take it easy. Wait a second, that is what you want to throw away! Nope, going to the gym. And while I will listen if she wants to talk about it, SHE NEEDS to stress over the job situation. If she wants to be on her own, then she's got to deal with this...ALONE. Which means she NEEDS to spend time with the kids, with a headache and with her OWN demons @ the job without ME.
Gima, catching up on the last few posts, I was so glad to see this one. Now, you're back on track. Glad to see it.
And, BTW when I read the most recent situation of being there for her re: listening about the job and then no updates, etc. it sounded to me that you had expectations, knowwhadImean?
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
