Just for coming to this site and telling your story was a big step in admitting what was going on within you. You are strong and have been making progress on your own terms.

I believe that if the OW was pregnant that would ruin your H's good time of being with the OW. It will be his mistake to clean up not yours.

Okay, ask yourself this...What would happen with your love and commitment to your H if she really was pregnant? Could you take him back? Could you ever trust him? Could you spend time with that child (when s/he would be visiting your H) and not resent your H that you would be helping to raise the child that was a product of your H cheating on you? These questions may help you get a better idea of your true feelings for you H now.

My 2 cents....I could never take my H back if he got another girl pregnant.

Anyway, what are you doing this weekend that is focusing on you (and your son) and not your H and the psycho?

Me-31
Him-28
D1-9
D2-6
Married 5-06
Seperated 12-07
He filed 1-08
Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08
Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09
Filed for D 4-28-09
Trying to make a go of it 6-09